Earlier this month, the Daughter appeared in the church musical, for the third year in a row. This year’s effort was called SPEAK LOUD, SPEAK PROUD, and had readings written by the performers, as well as dancing, and singing, and rapping. My daughter wrote something about me, which was only slightly mortifying because it was true.
She continues to excel in school, particularly in math. She may be a tad obsessed with First in Math. She’s now #1 in New York State with over 20,000 points, in the Top 20 for her grade nationally, and trying to make the Top 100 nationally. More importantly to her, she’s helping to close the gap between her school and the #1 school in the district.
She enjoys reading but is less than enthralled about writing about the readings. The class requirements DO seem to have a bit of mechanical feel to it, with X number of paragraphs, all starting with certain words such as First or Then or Next or Finally, and X paragraphs, each with Y sentences.
To my surprise, she’s given up the clarinet. I thought she was doing well, and that she both enjoyed it, especially playing with her mother, and that she was pretty good at it. The Wife wants to sell the Daughter’s instrument, but I’m opposed; I think she might come back to it.
She had to deal with a bullying incident in school, which has been resolved. The principal to him noted that his remarks were not only hurtful to others but, taken the wrong way, dangerous to himself. It was difficult for her to report him, as it seemed to draw attention to herself, and perhaps even harder to hear his apology.
Her room is…not as tidy as it might be, even by my fairly lax standards.
There’s undoubtedly more to say, but I’ll just note that I love the girl.
Congratulations to Lydia! You and Carol must be So Proud! I am going to share this blog on the youth website. I hope you don’t mind.
Sounds like all is well with your girl, Roger. Yes, the untidy room is part and parcel of the teen years. Trust me: better a messy room that one that is meticulously cleaned, etc. She is showing she is NOT neurotic! And good for her for figuring out how to “report” a bully in a way that will get the kid educated, not simply punished.
You are doing a good job. Amy
If she’s noticed the clumsy construction of textbook boilerplate, this suggests that she’ll go out of her way to avoid that sort of thing in her own writings, which would be a Good Thing.
Will you be publishing the True Life Mortification Tales?
Sounds as if your daughter is a nice equilibrated girl ! The mess in rooms is part of being normal at this age and can last for years ! Be warned !
Well done Lydia! That’s fantastic, especially that she’s found something she cares about so much. Nice post.