Despite the movie title, I can’t be everywhere all at once. That seems obvious on two April weekends. The Friday before Palm Sunday, my wife and I went down to south central Pennsylvania to attend a wedding. This took much longer than we anticipated. Leaving around 10:30 a.m., we took I-87 to I-287 and ultimately traveled west on the route that was formerly I-78 before reaching the local roads. We didn’t arrive at our hotel until 6:00 p.m.
The wedding of our niece, Markia, and her fiancé, Brandon, on Saturday was lovely, and the reception was equally nice. I will likely write more about this at some point.
The next morning, we traveled from southern Pennsylvania to the Binghamton, New York area. One of my oldest friends, Carol, along with her brother, sister, and other relatives, was having a celebration of life for Carol’s mom, Lillian Bakic, who died a few months ago. It was at a country club outside the city, which I had never been to.
A bunch of us got up and spoke briefly about Lillian, and I was feeling compelled to do so in part because Karen, who Carol and I have known since 1958, couldn’t make it because, bizarrely, there was a snowstorm in western Massachusetts. In April.
So obviously we didn’t make it to church. It was amusing that both my wife and I had people emailing or texting us, asking why they hadn’t seen us at church. We made it to church despite an ice storm and a threat of a snowstorm in February. We don’t come one weekend, and folks pointed it out.
Split screen
Two weeks later, on Friday night, there was an event at Wizard’s Wardrobe, where my wife works, to celebrate the tutors and other volunteers. I attended last year and had a good time.
However, the Underground Railroad Education Center (UREC) held an appreciation tea for those who have supported the program simultaneously. Congressman Paul Tonko was present and spoke briefly about recovering the IMLS and EPA fundsthat were allocated but DOGE-frozen.
At least three people asked me where my wife was, wanting to talk with her, needed to call her, mentioned they had seen her around, etc..
Later, my wife said that if I had been at the Wizard’s Wardrobe event and been on their team, maybe their team would have won the contest. There was a category about Beatles songs; the host would play 10-second snippets, and they had to pick the title. One was I’m Happy Just To Dance With You, which I realize could be a slightly tricky title. They also couldn’t name The Ballad Of John And Yoko.
There was also a question about the number of states that have a capital starting with the letter F. I didn’t know; the only one I could think of was Frankfort, KY, which turns out to be the only one. Someone else on their team had suggested Frankfort, but said it was the capital of Tennessee (which is Nashville), which didn’t sound right, so they went with the answer of ‘none’.
I have said this before: if people are bored, they are just not trying hard enough.
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1975: On April 30, “the city of Saigon, the capital of South Vietnam, was taken by the army of North Vietnam, ending the conflict that had grown out of the Vietnamese war for independence from France and a proxy war for the conflict between the US and the Soviet Union.”
1995: The bombing in Oklahoma City on April 19 killed 168 people. There was a woman I knew who worked for an SBDC in OKC. Her building was right across the street from the Murrah Building. She suffered severe injuries from flying glass and other items that acted as shrapnel. She wrote a very moving story about her recovery the following year, which I published in a newsletter. Another aftermath story, about forgiveness, I wrote about here.
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I was intrigued enough by the trailer for the film The Ballad of Wallis Island that my wife and I saw at the Spectrum 8 in Albany on Income Tax Day; Tuesdays are cheaper. Charles (Tim Key) is a quirky guy who lives alone on a large property on a remote island. He’s a massive fan of the folk duo McGwyer Mortimer (Tom Basden as Herb and Carey Mulligan as Nell).
So, he takes some of his lottery winnings and offers them the opportunity to play a private show at his home on Wallis Island. Do the bandmates and former lovers know that the other one is also coming?
It’s a straightforward concept, but it’s a joy to see the three characters interact; they have great chemistry. Charles is trying to keep the other two happy enough to play together again. He has adapted to his vaguely solitary life, but needed much more.
Nice
It seems almost dismissive to label The Ballad of Wallis Island charming and relatable. One critic notes that “it touches on the passage of time and grief of lost relationships.” The nostalgia of getting together segues into old tensions resurfacing. Another critic: “It was a little bit funny, a little bit sad, and a little bit sweet, all at the same time.”
If you’re a music fan, and the music is nice, you may lean into this idea: wouldn’t you like to be able to have your favorite band get together one more time?
The movie was directed by James Griffiths and written by actors Basden and Key. It also stars Sian Clifford as the shopkeeper. Executive producers – eight are listed – include Griffiths, Basden, Key, and Mulligan, so this is a passion project., as you can tell from this gestation story.
It’s only 100 minutes long, and it has a 97% positive rating with Rotten Tomatoescritics and 92% with moviegoers.
Welcoming, Protecting, and Preparing: A Congregational Guide
Madison Avenue at Eagle Street, ALB, April 2025
I became particularly interested in the subject of interacting with Immigration Enforcement Officials in recent weeks. In late March, a speaker at my church discussed their local entity, which holds a Department of Justice accreditation, enabling them to assist with applications for Asylum, Citizenship, Family reunification, Travel documents, Work authorization, and more.
However, the speaker reported that, since January 20, there have been reports of raids in my area at businesses, bus stops, and on public transportation. Fake job offers and phony attorneys are out there to deceive.
Private space
“In the performance of their immigration enforcement duties, an ICE agent may enter any area open to the general public.” So, how is that defined? From the Shelterforce document ICE Is Coming to Your Building—Are You Ready?:
Designate common areas as private spaces: If property, including a multifamily building lobby, courtyard, or other typically common area, is marked as being closed to the public, ICE agents cannot enter without a warrant. “So, for example, if you’ve got an apartment building, and the lobby doors are unlocked, anybody can enter the lobby. But, to go past the lobby, if they need to have a key card, or it’s marked ‘residents only’ or something, then they’re not allowed to enter those types of areas without either [a warrant or] permission from somebody who has the right to give it—that would usually be either a tenant or, if it’s a common area, it could be the owner. But they can’t just go in to the private areas,” Eric Dunn, director of litigation for National Housing Law Project, says.
Signs
“So one step is to make sure that in multifamily-type buildings, any common areas are marked with signage or barriers and fences to make clear which parts are public space and what parts are private areas so that ICE agents can’t just start walking up and down the halls looking for people.” Unfortunately, Trump’s racist rhetoric and deportation actions have emboldened ICE agents, who’ve been documented disregarding private spaces and declining to produce warrants. Additionally, although adding signage—such as ‘Restricted Area: Residents and Employees Only’—is a good idea, Public Counsel, a nonprofit public interest law firm focused on civil rights and racial and economic justice, cautions that “signs alone may not make an area legally private.” It’s recommended that building owners work with an attorney to draft legally defensible policies.
Response
If an ICE agent approaches staff in a public area of a facility or work location, staff should do the following:
Ask the ICE agent for identification (“Can I see your ID, please?”). If the agent provides valid identification, note the agent’s name, title, badge number, and agency. Take a photograph or make a copy of the agent’s ID, if possible. Also, ask for and note the name and telephone number of the agent’s supervisor, if possible.
Shelterforce: “When passing along info, these groups suggest using the S.A.L.U.T.E. acronym to make sure you document all relevant information:
S is for size: How many agents are in the group?
A is for activity: What are the agents doing?
L is for location: Where are the agents?
U is for uniform: What are the agents wearing?
T is for time: What is the date and time of day?
E is for equipment: Do the agents have weapons?”
• If, after presenting valid identification, an ICE agent asks questions of staff about an employee or other individual, staff should state, “I am not authorized to answer your questions.” The reason for declining to answer is to protect the privacy of employees and patrons.
What to Do if ICE Comes to Your Church
Sojourners has shared a valuable and detailed document. Rev. Minna Bothwell, who pastors the Capitol Hill Lutheran Church in downtown Des Moines, IA, was motivated to create Welcoming, Protecting, and Preparing: A Congregational Guide. “As people of faith,” Bothwell explained, “we are called to provide sanctuary, welcome the stranger, and uphold the dignity of all people, holding both joy and sorrow without discrimination…
“Once I received confirmation that the materials were legally sound, I began sharing them online,” Bothwell said, “recognizing that many faith communities were urgently seeking reliable guidance amid widespread misinformation.”
Also: The ACLU notes, “Regardless of your immigration status, you have guaranteed rights under the Constitution. Learn more here about your rights as an immigrant and how to express them.”
Once again, I recommended an Oscar-nominated short film. “A Lien brings you into the tense, intimate moment of a green card interview that could change three people’s lives forever.” It gets very intense and entirely believable. You can see the film for free here or here. Here’s an interview with the directors.
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Richard, Otis, Eddie, Melvin, Glenn, David, Dennis
Why Interview with Gale for Sunday Stealing? “Back in 2007, a blogger named Harmonica Man posted five questions for Gale at This Was Me. Well, now we’re turning the tables and interviewing you.”
1. What’s the most daring thing you’ve ever done? Did it take physical or emotional courage?
I wrote about it here, starting with A Story. But briefly, “I started climbing up [a mountain] just to get a better view” in Alta, UT, in the fall of 1994. I got to the top.
“Now the descent. I tried to brake myself from going too fast. I got maybe a third of the way down, and I began sliding. But I wasn’t too worried until my left leg got caught in a hole, while the rest of my body weight was going downhill.
“My left knee started hurting, a LOT. Somehow, I crawled the rest of my way down, then the few dozen meters to where we were staying.”
This was not courageous. It was stupid, borne of the pain of a deteriorating relationship. Then I had REAL physical pain, which I experience to this day.
2. Where did you meet the love of your life?
At church. I was probably chair of the Council of Ministries, and she was the Membership Chair.
3. What brand/flavor of coffee are you drinking these days?
I don’t drink coffee. As I’ve noted in the past, I don’t make coffee either. When I was assigned to the rotation at work to make coffee, the product was so awful that I was excused thereafter.
Caribbean
4. What’s the coolest place you’ve ever visited, and how did you get there (car, plane, motorcycle, etc.)?
I wrote about this here. It was Barbados in May 1999 on our honeymoon:
“It was just grand to go to any all-inclusive resort for six nights, especially as a prize for coming in second on JEOPARDY on my second episode…
“The ocean was gorgeous… There were three different places to eat dinner, and the food was fabulous. We bought a rum cake to take home; it was extraordinarily delicious. We enjoyed having tea at 4 p.m.
“Everything was interesting to us, from the way the news was far more international to the wall-to-wall coverage of cricket.
“When we returned to the States… Somehow, we were bumped to first class on the five-hour flight home.”
The eighties
5. What’s the best concert you ever attended?
It’s long been two: The Temptations Reunion tour, where Eddie and David joined Dennis, Otis, Glenn, Richard, and Melvin. “I saw this performance at the Colonie Coliseum in Albany County in 1982. First, they sang together, then in groups of five. They started with the first classic lineup, with Richard replacing the late Paul. Then Dennis went in for David, then Glenn supplanted Eddie. They closed by singing together.” And it was a close-up view with no bad seats in the house.
The other was the August 1983 performance of Talking Heads at the Saratoga Performance Arts Center on the Stop Making Sense tour. I finally saw the Jonathan Demme Stop Making Sense movie in 2023. “The first half of the movie transported me back four decades, with the attendant awe, from Byrne’s solo Psycho Killer to the pieces with the full band, including Alex Weir, Bernie Worrell, and Steve Scales. Honestly, I was joyfully exhausted by the band and backup singers Edna Holt and Lynn Mabry’s energy.”